How to get a man to think about you all the time
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This article guide will teach you how you can make a man to think of you
wherever he is, whatever he’s doing and with whomever he meets (other ladies
perhaps?). The very first thing I should tell you is: you absolutely GOT to put
some effort into this project, not like running a double marathon or something,
yet, to get good results you should dedicate some quality time , action and
perseverance to reach the goal. But I’m very sure you also know that all of
life’s great rewards are (almost) always preceded by a good bit of
old fashioned effort! Nothing to be severely scared of though, your heart will
stay alive during this whole journey :)
I wish to begin this introductury guide with the very first brain wave that
comes to mind when we talk about the subject of how to make a man to think about you all the time:
Why would you want a man, which usually happens to be your husband or (to
become) boyfriend, to think ABOUT you and think OF you all the time, wherever
he leaves his footprints?
A husband, boyfriend or lover who has the habit of thinking about and of you a lot gives you a feeling of comfort and security.
When he thinks about you
on a very regular basis he actually shows you that he cares a lot about you,
and that he always keeps you in the front line of his mind whenever he needs to
make decisions or when he does something that could potentially affect both you
and him. Now, isn't that quite an awesome thing?! Some people tend to call it real love... personally I rather refer
to a proper conditioning of character.
Here's a little relationship
secret for you to chew on while you’re reading on:
Most people who want to keep a
guy interested in them, you would almost always use the conventional method
of giving in to (almost) all and everything that guy wants, hoping that their man
is so amazingly pleased with all that effort that he wants to keep that woman
forever and ever...! Isn’t that what you are used to do as well?
NEWSFLASH:
Almost all of the women who do this with a man, fail to keep that guy
interested at them for a longer span of time. Do you know why? Men don't think the way women think!
Be a mystery to him
So the big deal is that you want to keep
your man interested in you throughout the relationship right? Well, there
you have it! Exactly the one very important reason why you need to be, AND STAY
mysterious throughout the entire course of your relationship. Always reveal
certain sides about yourself one by one, and never give away every little or
big thing there is to know! Even if you're married for 35 years (maybe even
more so), keep some things to yourself, especially those things he would LOVE
to know about you yet by not revealing it, you won’t get in deep troubled waters
(for instance the "you keep secrets from me" situation). In most
cases, guys get easily turned off by female counterparts who are "too open”
about themselves. So... once you have something to tell to your man, don't tell
all in one go! Make him guess a little bit about "how the it all continues".
One other reason why you should tell things in bits and pieces is that the
male brain is not very capable in receiving, and processing too much information
at the same time. Unlike women, who can perfectly receive, store and analyze
large amounts of information in one continuous stream. This is also why men are
not quite as good in multi-tasking as women are, their brain is simply not
build to accept multiple things at the same time. It’s an evolutionary thing
that goes back thousands of years, when men had to focus on ONE thing at a
time, with complete dedication (hunting) while women were tasked to do many
things (care for babies, cooking, washing, etc.)
Don't be the boring type
Another type of character you should be in order to successfully keep a man
thinking about you a lot: Be fun and adventurous. A lot of men aren't very comfortable
in being around women who are not very spontaneous and who do not have a good
sense of humor, adventure and other things that go a little off the beaten track.
So find out what he likes to do, see, listen to, etc. and you are then able to
initiate really interesting conversations and activities that are fun, special,
interesting and exciting to him.
Be a challenge for him
The next thing you need to be (and stay) is some kind of a challenge. Once
you're too generous to a man, he could still be interested in you yet that will
not stay that way for very long (the relationship becomes sour, the flame
slowly dies out), and IF the two fo you manage to stay together, it will
probably be for the wrong reasons. When you're always making sure to stay some
sort of a challenge to a man, then the chances are very high he will stick to
you for a VERY long time!
Are you still sexy enough for him?
So many character you need to be / play... Okay, this is the last one, I
conclude the 4-spoke wheel of attraction
with something that is not only beneficial for him, but for yourself as well. You
MUST always be 100% certain that you still are and stay attractive, sexy and
beautiful in front of him and others. At the end of the day man fall for beauty
first! Men LOVE to show off, and not in the last place the women they are with.
Make your man feel proud at you... Honestly, if you are able to pull that off,
you already have your man half in your pocket! One other major reason why this trick
works is because men are a lot more visually minded then women. Everything that
makes their eyes all exciting is automatically, and instantly perceived as
"good and approved". Change your look a bit once in a while, new hair
do, new fashion style, get a sexy tattoo or even a hot piercing in any
body part that suits you... it doesn't matter very much what you do, as long as
you don't stay all the same for too long because in a guy’s mind that's.... BORING!
