Wednesday 19 June 2013

How to make a guy think about you all the time

Welcome to the amazing free and super interesting 101 guide to:

How to get a man to think about you all the time 

How to make a guy think
about you all the time
How to get a man's attention
This article guide will teach you how you can make a man to think of you wherever he is, whatever he’s doing and with whomever he meets (other ladies perhaps?). The very first thing I should tell you is: you absolutely GOT to put some effort into this project, not like running a double marathon or something, yet, to get good results you should dedicate some quality time , action and perseverance to reach the goal. But I’m very sure you also know that all of life’s great rewards are (almost) always preceded by a good bit of old fashioned effort! Nothing to be severely scared of though, your heart will stay alive during this whole journey :)

I wish to begin this introductury guide with the very first brain wave that comes to mind when we talk about the subject of how to make a man to think about you all the time:

Why would you want a man, which usually happens to be your husband or (to become) boyfriend, to think ABOUT you and think OF you all the time, wherever he leaves his footprints?

Let me give you one very good reason why you would want that:
A husband, boyfriend or lover who has the habit of thinking about and of you a lot gives you a feeling of comfort and security.
When he thinks about you on a very regular basis he actually shows you that he cares a lot about you, and that he always keeps you in the front line of his mind whenever he needs to make decisions or when he does something that could potentially affect both you and him. Now, isn't that quite an awesome thing?! Some people tend to call it real love... personally I rather refer to a proper conditioning of character.

Here's a little relationship secret for you to chew on while you’re reading on:

Most people who want to keep a guy interested in them, you would almost always use the conventional method of giving in to (almost) all and everything that guy wants, hoping that their man is so amazingly pleased with all that effort that he wants to keep that woman forever and ever...! Isn’t that what you are used to do as well?

NEWSFLASH:
Almost all of the women who do this with a man, fail to keep that guy interested at them for a longer span of time. Do you know why? Men don't think the way women think!

If you are really committed to make a man to think about you, and keep them that way, all the time, you absolutely GOT to be "a mix of characters". A little bit of everything so to say. That in effect means you have to be whatever a guy  finds to be attractive and interesting in women: fun and adventurous, mysterious, flirty and sexy, but a challenge to keep as well. In most cases, a man starts a relationship with a woman simply as a fun and exciting kind of game and if you show everything you have to offer too soon and too fast, that man of your dreams will very soon loose his interest in you and move on to the next lady subject. It's as simple as that!

Be a mystery to him

So the big deal is that you want to keep your man interested in you throughout the relationship right? Well, there you have it! Exactly the one very important reason why you need to be, AND STAY mysterious throughout the entire course of your relationship. Always reveal certain sides about yourself one by one, and never give away every little or big thing there is to know! Even if you're married for 35 years (maybe even more so), keep some things to yourself, especially those things he would LOVE to know about you yet by not revealing it, you won’t get in deep troubled waters (for instance the "you keep secrets from me" situation). In most cases, guys get easily turned off by female counterparts who are "too open” about themselves. So... once you have something to tell to your man, don't tell all in one go! Make him guess a little bit about "how the it all continues".

One other reason why you should tell things in bits and pieces is that the male brain is not very capable in receiving, and processing too much information at the same time. Unlike women, who can perfectly receive, store and analyze large amounts of information in one continuous stream. This is also why men are not quite as good in multi-tasking as women are, their brain is simply not build to accept multiple things at the same time. It’s an evolutionary thing that goes back thousands of years, when men had to focus on ONE thing at a time, with complete dedication (hunting) while women were tasked to do many things (care for babies, cooking, washing, etc.)

Don't be the boring type

Another type of character you should be in order to successfully keep a man thinking about you a lot: Be fun and adventurous. A lot of men aren't very comfortable in being around women who are not very spontaneous and who do not have a good sense of humor, adventure and other things that go a little off the beaten track. So find out what he likes to do, see, listen to, etc. and you are then able to initiate really interesting conversations and activities that are fun, special, interesting and exciting to him.

Be a challenge for him

The next thing you need to be (and stay) is some kind of a challenge. Once you're too generous to a man, he could still be interested in you yet that will not stay that way for very long (the relationship becomes sour, the flame slowly dies out), and IF the two fo you manage to stay together, it will probably be for the wrong reasons. When you're always making sure to stay some sort of a challenge to a man, then the chances are very high he will stick to you for a VERY long time!

Are you still sexy enough for him?

So many character you need to be / play... Okay, this is the last one, I conclude the 4-spoke wheel of attraction with something that is not only beneficial for him, but for yourself as well. You MUST always be 100% certain that you still are and stay attractive, sexy and beautiful in front of him and others. At the end of the day man fall for beauty first! Men LOVE to show off, and not in the last place the women they are with. Make your man feel proud at you... Honestly, if you are able to pull that off, you already have your man half in your pocket! One other major reason why this trick works is because men are a lot more visually minded then women. Everything that makes their eyes all exciting is automatically, and instantly perceived as "good and approved". Change your look a bit once in a while, new hair do, new fashion style, get a sexy tattoo or even a hot piercing in any body part that suits you... it doesn't matter very much what you do, as long as you don't stay all the same for too long because in a guy’s mind that's.... BORING!

With a small bit of trial and error I'm sure you will do just fine! Rome wasn't built in just a day and getting a guy to think about you all the time as well is not a one-day task. Just take it all bit by bit, and at the end you'll know not better then doing all of this naturally! Good luck!!

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