How to attract men by fine-tuning and being aware of your physical appearance - Part 1: Your body (section 2)

This sectional post is a continuation of the blog post How to attract men by fine-tuning and being aware of your physical appearance. Please read the earlier sections first before reading the following section:

How to attract men by fine-tuningand being aware of your physical appearance - Part 1: Your body (section 1), which includes the topics: 

• Your face and your hair
• Your body shape and posture
• Your breasts, bum and pussy

 Now, let’s move on with the second section shall we?

Using your legs to attract and seduce guys
Your legs are an object of desire to most men, make good use of that!

To a man, a woman’s legs refer in his conscious and subconscious mind to what is directly attached to it: your ass and your pussy. Men view ladies’ legs as some kind of extension of those body parts.

In order to keep your legs in good shape you need to do some physical exercise (sports such as running, swimming, skating, bicyle riding or cardio fitness). In general, men don’t like women to have too much muscles in their legs (or anywhere else for that matter). So instead you should aim to keep them slim (not skinny!). Your legs should look soft and female, not hard and manly.

Shave your legs on regular basis. Depending on your personal hair grow rate, you should do that anywhere between daily to weekly. As for myself, I need to shave my legs every other three days in order to keep them soft and hairless. Use shaving tools specially designed for ladies’s, I personally prefer Philips lady shave  which doesn't leave any marks or cuts, shaves very smoothly and glides very smoothly over my skin.

TIP: For optimal sexual pleasure it comes very handy if your legs have a certain degree of agility, which is a very good thing when you lie on your back while making love to a man. It allows you to place your knees on your shoulders, which makes for a real good, very enjoyable sex position. It tilts your pussy a little bit in a way that the man’s penis head can easily rub / massage against your upper vaginal wand, where your G-spot is located as well.

If you are blessed with natural beautiful legs, most often being long and slim, then waste no effort to show them off! Wear short skirts as often as possible or tight / skinny jeans, leggings or other leg wear that allow your legs to be shown.

Utilizing your hands and feet in attracting and seducing men

How your hands and feet play a function as well in the game of attraction and seduction...

Your hands and nails are a very important assett when it comes to attracting and seducing men. There are not only the most outer visible parts of your body, also they are excellent body language tools. But, if your hands and nails look aweful, dirty and / or not cared after, men are quickly turned off by that.

Dedicate plenty of your time for proper hand- and nail care. The skin of your hands has to be soft and tender while your nails cannot be too short nor too long. Try to refrain from using too bright colored nail polish, it drives toon much attention away from the rest of your package. In most cases, the more natural the better although there’s nothing wrong with enhancing that natural beauty. So, applying a nice and attractive color is fine, but don’t bring it over the top. You nails also should not be too pointy or too straight. Very pointy nails give a subconscious signal that you may be very edgy in character while very straight nails could subconsciously imply you are not feminine enough. Don’t underestimate those subconscious signals! Men may noy notice all those things consciously, but the signals get through to their brain anyhow.

Not just foot fetishists in this world look at women feet, there are plenty of other men as well who find it important that a woman has good looking feet. So care for your feet as well! Some feet are naturally more attractive then other feet, but even though your feet may not be the most beautiful ones in the world, you can still do a lot to make them look attractive enough for men to like and adore. Maintain a proper skin care for your feet and don’t forget your toe nails as well! Previously mentioned guidelines for the nails of your hand apply to your toe nails just as much. Finger nail art and toe nail art are great ways to express yourself and even though I mentioned before that bright colors should be avoided, nail art is a different story. It shows your sense of irony and creativity. Most men like nail art a lot!

TIP: By regularly walking on your bare feet en by practicing to walk on your toes you put more tension on your feet’s “instep” which results in a more beautiful and attractive shape of your feet. Apart from that your overall body posture will be enhanced as well.

Footwear / shoes

What to wear and what not to wear

It’s quite common knowledge that you can better have 10 expensive pair of good quality, perfectly macthed to your style pairs of shoes and boots instead of a huge collection of cheap footwear that easily wears off and doesn’t even match you fully. Yet, Western women have on average not less then 27 pairs of shoes... Why? Probably we have a shoe fetish alomost by birth. Any shoe shop we come across deserves at least a good look, true or not?!

But in a way we should condition ourselves, and train ourselves to buy less “promotion shoes” and save more for the real good shoes. I admit, I’m a promotion shoe victim as well, and my collection is far above the average I just mentioned... This is for me personally something I still need to work hard on!

In any case, you would do good to have at least one GOOD pair of any of the following:

High boots with heel, preferably in two style: the cowgirl style and the black shiny leather style. Boots are a huge turn on to men, they LOVE women in boots! Especially if we wear them under a short skirt with naked legs. Personally I wear boots A LOT. I have about 15 of them.

With boots, it’s usually not easily too high for the heel. Most women can easily handle 10 to 15 centimeters. Boots give you more support then pumps, so the heel can be a lot higher then what you are used to with pumps. In fact, the higher your heel, the nicer your body posture becomes.

Half-high boots with medium heel are good to wear under jeans. They may not be as spectacular as high boots but if you wear the right jeans (tight around your ass and a little wider around your ankles) then that makes up for it more then enough!

Pumps with medium or high heels are quite ideal to wear with any type of clothing. Pumps are elegant and stylish yet erotisizing to men as well. Men especially love pumps that are made from shiny lack and soft suede. The nose of your pumps may be quite pointy, nothing wrong with that at all, but a pair of pumps with the nose being too round or even almost flat is lesser attractive to men. Pumps can be worn under almost any type of clohing from jeans to leggings to sshort skirts or long dresses.

Sandals can be a comfortable piece of footwear, yet not so attractive for men. If you choose to wear them make them at least not so boring, for instance, you could buy quite nice looking sandals that have an artificial flower knitted on them, or decorated with other things. Sandals are good enough to wear to the beach or in your garden. NEVER wear sandals under a short skirts or even worse under leggings!

Jogging shoes and other sporting shoes are nice to wear underneath your jeans or legging. But make sure that the rest of your clothing also matches along with it. So don’t wear anything very stylish or elegant, it won’t mix with your shoes. Wearing a tight shirt together with leggings or toght jeans works usually best.

How to use perfume to attract and seduce men

Did you know that aux de cologne / fragrance / au de toilette and pheromones (sex hormones) can drive guys wild of desire for you?

Especially for women who use it cleverly, perfume can be an extremely powerful and very effective tool to attract and seduce men, either socially, romatically or sexually. If you’re not one of those very rare creations of God are who have an extremely attractive body-odor of themselves (which are very few) then you should always apply perfume in a way to make yourself more attractive on the level of smell. Men generally have a weakness for “feminine smells”, it goes right to their unconscious brain and is perceived as being attractive and sexually arousing.

But please be careful! Don’t use any heavy, too dominant perfumes that focus the attention only On the smell you broadcast. It has to be subtle and gentle to get the best effect. After all, men should not perceive it too consciously because that makes them think, and a men who thinks doesn’t make it all that better. Leave the thinking to yourself and keep men as much as possible in their unconscious mode where you can control them best.

In my own personal experience, what works most effective and get the best results, is to keep a collection of ten to twenty difference scents that all have a specific signature, yet suit you personally. Then, every day, choose two to three of them (you may select them depending on your mood or fashion style) and spray them on your body together. The mix screates a scent that is totally unique. Nobody else is wearing the same as you now, while the mix of scent also invokes an explosion of experience in men’s smell receptitors. Other women will spontaniously appraoch ou to ask you which brand of perfume you are wearing... But don’t tell them your secret! Just make up some kind of exclusive sounding brand name, let them search forever for it, they won’t find it in their lifetime!

TIP: Where to apply fragrance on your body?
You should spray or wetten with your fingertip that areas of your body that are most easily accessible to the men’s noses: undxer your chin (not your neck because this area is more prone to be vaporized quickly), between the upper part of your breasts and your wrists. Depending on the brands you use you should re-apply your perfume mix every one to three hours.

Try to match your  shampoo, conditioner, bathing soap, hand wash and deodorant with the perfume(s) you choose as well. Those may seem like minor details, but they are actually more important then you would initially think! In a lot of cases it’s best to use those brands that originate from the same brand or conglomerate (eg Unilever, Proctor & Gamble) as they often use a lot of the same ingredients for many of their products.

Then you could also make perfectly good use of the extremely powerful unconscious effects of pheromones. What?! Pheromones are sex hormones that your body releases whenever you are excited. People can’t consciously smell them, yet the unconscious mind can. Pheromones have the power to attract any man instantly, without them knowing WHY they are so attracted to you! Men have pheromones as well, attracting women and there are even uni-sex pheromones that attract both sexes. You can buy a small spray bottle of female pheromones and apply it whenever you come across a guy you desperately want to attract to yourself. But be careful though, applying too much of this “men magnet” stuff could in fact do the opposite and chase them away as it can be so overwhelming to them that they get scare them off. I would say, use at the most about 10% the amount you would apply as perfume. Pheromones stay on your body for quite some time so you don’t need to re-apply in at least four or five hours.

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Some of my own most favorite perfumes include: