How to attract men by fine-tuning and being aware of your physical appearance - Part 1: Your body (section 2)

This sectional post is a continuation of the blog post How to attract men by fine-tuning and being aware of your physical appearance. Please read the earlier sections first before reading the following section:

How to attract men by fine-tuningand being aware of your physical appearance - Part 1: Your body (section 1), which includes the topics: 

• Your face and your hair
• Your body shape and posture
• Your breasts, bum and pussy

 Now, let’s move on with the second section shall we?

How to attract men by fine-tuning and being aware of your physical appearance - Part 1: Your body (section 1)

How to attract men by fine-tuning and
being aware of your physical appearance

Being a woman, in the first place you are basically an object of desire for the men who are around you all day and every day. You are a lot more then that, but since this dating guide for women is about just that, I’ll just keep it subject related here. Being an object of desire for men is something we can discuss in great length, whether it’s just and fair or not... yet that won’t make much of a difference, fact is that it’s just the way it is, we live in a male-dominant society and whether you accept it or not, as a women you stay that object of desire whether you want to or not.

So rather then to look at the negative side, as a women you may want to focus on the good things this can bring you instead. Basically it can empower you a lot, making use of the male weakness of their concepts and approach towards their female counterparts.

Now what can you do to exploit this situation to end up with the most benefit for yourself? In a nutshell it’s all about what you have to offer and how you present yourself. You are not alone in the market for a good man, and competition is usually very fears. In this first part we’ll look at how your body affects your popularity with men and what you can do with your body to enhance your popularity.

How do you look, walk, talk, smile, interact and more. How does it affect the impression you make on men? How to shape your behavior to attract the right men? There has been a lot of research conducted around these kind of questions. And in many of tghese studies it becomes clear that the first and foremost focal point of men looking at a woman is the face, the body shape, the breasts and bum while the alpha-dominant men have a very specific, slightly different way of looking at a woman. I’m going to address this in more detail for eacgh subject further below for those of you who want to attract the dominant type of man.

How to survive after being dumped

No more calls from him anymore... no more reply's to your texts... no more seeing each other... and what's the most difficult to deal with, no more kissing, hugging, cuddling, simply being together and having fun...

It's all over, the one guy you cared for so much is now not yours anymore. Although you feel like you are still his girl... But he found another one, or just walked without any reason at all, at least not one you are able to understand!

Everything happens at the same time in your head, like an emotional rollercoaster. You feel angry at him but you love him at the same time... You feel sad and heartbroken but there's also that little bit of left-over hope that the two of you still can work it out and hopefully get back together.

But the real truth is... that's not gonna happen. You know it but somehow your mind doesn't match your heart and you're not willing to accept any of that! How can I accept it to be over? That would mean I don't care about him at all, right?! But I DO care and I DO want him back and I DO DO DO everything to get him back!!

But if you are really brave enough to face a couple of truths you would find out that there are in fact only two options for you. You can either lay around and be a pathetic heartbroken victim of love, (which I've done a couple of those in my life) or you can start to move on, try to start accepting that his love for you is not gone but changed into something different then being your boyfriend.

If you're ready to choose the last option (which is probably the wisest thing to do) I will give you some very helpful tips that guide you though survival after being dumped.

How to make a guy think about you all the time

Welcome to the amazing free and super interesting 101 guide to:

How to get a man to think about you all the time 

How to make a guy think
about you all the time
How to get a man's attention

This article guide will teach you how you can make a man to think of you wherever he is, whatever he’s doing and with whomever he meets (other ladies perhaps?). The very first thing I should tell you is: you absolutely GOT to put some effort into this project, not like running a double marathon or something, yet, to get good results you should dedicate some quality time , action and perseverance to reach the goal. But I’m very sure you also know that all of life’s great rewards are (almost) always preceded by a good bit of old fashioned effort! Nothing to be severely scared of though, your heart will stay alive during this whole journey :)

I wish to begin this introductury guide with the very first brain wave that comes to mind when we talk about the subject of how to make a man to think about you all the time:

Why would you want a man, which usually happens to be your husband or (to become) boyfriend, to think ABOUT you and think OF you all the time, wherever he leaves his footprints?

Let me give you one very good reason why you would want that:

A husband, boyfriend or lover who has the habit of thinking about and of you a lot gives you a feeling of comfort and security.

When he thinks about you on a very regular basis he actually shows you that he cares a lot about you, and that he always keeps you in the front line of his mind whenever he needs to make decisions or when he does something that could potentially affect both you and him. Now, isn't that quite an awesome thing?! Some people tend to call it real love... personally I rather refer to a proper conditioning of character.

Here's a little relationship secret for you to chew on while you’re reading on:

Most people who want to keep a guy interested in them, you would almost always use the conventional method of giving in to (almost) all and everything that guy wants, hoping that their man is so amazingly pleased with all that effort that he wants to keep that woman forever and ever...! Isn’t that what you are used to do as well?

NEWSFLASH:

Almost all of the women who do this with a man, fail to keep that guy interested at them for a longer span of time. Do you know why? Men don't think the way women think!

If you are really committed to make a man to think about you, and keep them that way, all the time, you absolutely GOT to be "a mix of characters". A little bit of everything so to say. That in effect means you have to be whatever a guy  finds to be attractive and interesting in women: fun and adventurous, mysterious, flirty and sexy, but a challenge to keep as well. In most cases, a man starts a relationship with a woman simply as a fun and exciting kind of game and if you show everything you have to offer too soon and too fast, that man of your dreams will very soon loose his interest in you and move on to the next lady subject. It's as simple as that!

Be a mystery to him

So the big deal is that you want to keep your man interested in you throughout the relationship right? Well, there you have it! Exactly the one very important reason why you need to be, AND STAY mysterious throughout the entire course of your relationship. Always reveal certain sides about yourself one by one, and never give away every little or big thing there is to know! Even if you're married for 35 years (maybe even more so), keep some things to yourself, especially those things he would LOVE to know about you yet by not revealing it, you won’t get in deep troubled waters (for instance the "you keep secrets from me" situation). In most cases, guys get easily turned off by female counterparts who are "too open” about themselves. So... once you have something to tell to your man, don't tell all in one go! Make him guess a little bit about "how the it all continues".

One other reason why you should tell things in bits and pieces is that the male brain is not very capable in receiving, and processing too much information at the same time. Unlike women, who can perfectly receive, store and analyze large amounts of information in one continuous stream. This is also why men are not quite as good in multi-tasking as women are, their brain is simply not build to accept multiple things at the same time. It’s an evolutionary thing that goes back thousands of years, when men had to focus on ONE thing at a time, with complete dedication (hunting) while women were tasked to do many things (care for babies, cooking, washing, etc.)

Don't be the boring type

Another type of character you should be in order to successfully keep a man thinking about you a lot: Be fun and adventurous. A lot of men aren't very comfortable in being around women who are not very spontaneous and who do not have a good sense of humor, adventure and other things that go a little off the beaten track. So find out what he likes to do, see, listen to, etc. and you are then able to initiate really interesting conversations and activities that are fun, special, interesting and exciting to him.

Be a challenge for him

The next thing you need to be (and stay) is some kind of a challenge. Once you're too generous to a man, he could still be interested in you yet that will not stay that way for very long (the relationship becomes sour, the flame slowly dies out), and IF the two fo you manage to stay together, it will probably be for the wrong reasons. When you're always making sure to stay some sort of a challenge to a man, then the chances are very high he will stick to you for a VERY long time!

Are you still sexy enough for him?

So many character you need to be / play... Okay, this is the last one, I conclude the 4-spoke wheel of attraction with something that is not only beneficial for him, but for yourself as well. You MUST always be 100% certain that you still are and stay attractive, sexy and beautiful in front of him and others. At the end of the day man fall for beauty first! Men LOVE to show off, and not in the last place the women they are with. Make your man feel proud at you... Honestly, if you are able to pull that off, you already have your man half in your pocket! One other major reason why this trick works is because men are a lot more visually minded then women. Everything that makes their eyes all exciting is automatically, and instantly perceived as "good and approved". Change your look a bit once in a while, new hair do, new fashion style, get a sexy tattoo or even a hot piercing in any body part that suits you... it doesn't matter very much what you do, as long as you don't stay all the same for too long because in a guy’s mind that's.... BORING!

With a small bit of trial and error I'm sure you will do just fine! Rome wasn't built in just a day and getting a guy to think about you all the time as well is not a one-day task. Just take it all bit by bit, and at the end you'll know not better then doing all of this naturally! Good luck!!

5 signs he can perform well in bed

So you want to predict whether he is a god between the sheets or just a flop...?

If you meet a new man, thisthought likely runs through your head: Will he be able to satisfy me sexually? Well, from his behavior you can already sort of make up how he is between the sheets! So read on and discover how you can predict!

5 signs that tell you a man is good in bed:

1. When he talks, he uses his hands
It can be useful to look at how a man uses his hands. He talks a lot with his hands? Then chances are that he's good in bed. If he uses his hands while talking a lot, can you imagine how much he uses them between the sheets?!

2. He does not boast
If a man is good in bed, he probably doesn't talk much about his sex life and how good he is in bed. Men who hang great stories, usually have something to hide, and they use the talking to compensate it. So beware: If he doesn't speak so loud and proud of his sexual conquests, he has probably true bedroom qualities!.

3. He listens to you
Do you notice that he listens to you during a call or face to face conversation? Very good! Men who listen to you, find it important to know how you feel, they want you to feel good! Especially in the romantic moments.

4. He can tie knots in 5 seconds
Notice how he makes his tie (if he has one). Is it fast and smooth or is he a klutz? How he does his tie says a lot about his motor. Finger Swift men have better motor skills in bed. If he doesn't wear ties, you can also pay special attention to his shoe-laces.

5. He holds the door for you
It's important that a man has good manners. He holds the door open for you? He pushes your seat for you? Then he understands the concept ladies first. Good chances are he also has that institution during sex.

Source: allwomenstalk.com
Extra: How to prepare for a blowjob

How to keep a man faithful

How to keep a man faithful

It's often said that women think with their brain and men think with their dick. Of course it's not totally true but it's not very far fetched either. See, genetically the man is made to reproduce, spread his seed as much as possible. He's programmed to do that and even though you find a great guy who totally falls for you and wants to live happily ever after with you...that one genetically programmed issue is still there. So...

How do you prevent a man from cheating?

And how do you keep your boyfriend or husband from giving in to his most basic (and very powerful) hunger to mess around with other women? To men, the answer seems simple and in reality it's where most women fail to understand and take action. Jessica Barnes, relationship expert explains:

Men and wonen have totally different ways of thinking. While men's thought are more basic, female thoughts go more deep and seek more relations to other issues. Men on the other hand are better in relativation, which is very useful if you want to get something done without too much distraction, or in decision making. The one over the other is not better or worse, but we women should learn how men think in order to understand their reasoning.

How to keep a man faithful

Basically you have to make sure he is and stays sexually satisfied (with you). And why would that prevent him from going with another women when he's out of your sight? Well, the answer to that lies in your man's libido. Let me explain this in more detail...

Every man has a libido and unlike women, that libido is mostly based on his ability to perform on sexual level. Some men have a huge libido while many other guys have less of it. It's very individual and depends among other things on his genetic level of testosterone production, his diet and overall health.

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Why do men cheat: Libido and sexual needs If the libido of your man is high (usually the case for real "alpha-dominant men") then you need to work a little harder then when he's got less male hormone (testosterone). Keeping him sexually satisfied can be a tough job sometimes, but hey, nothing in life comes for free! Related questions and topics: How can I prevent my husband from cheating on me? Why do men cheat? Men cheating on women How to tell if my husband cheats? Which signals tell you that your husband or boyfriends cheats? How to stop my boyfriend from cheating on me? How to keep a man happy in a relationship. How to keep my boyfriend satisfied? Can I prevent my husband from cheating? My boyfrind cheats on me, is that normal? So if you give him a blowjob and a good fuck every day, does it keep him satisfied? Maybe for some time but in a matter of weeks that will start to get boring, not even mentioning about yourself. Men and women see, feel and experience sex totally different. For (most) women sex is an act of love. For (most) men, sex is lust and passion that has very little to do with love. You may very well not agree, but that's just the way it is. So when you and your man are having sex, you feel the intense love and affection while he experiences totally different things. And that's one of the biggest reasons why guys are so obsessed with sex and all its variety in forms. Therefor, to keep a man sexually happy, it's important to understand he has a need for variety, regular new things, often even the crazier the better. After a while most men LOVE to get kinky and while they might not be good at giving you that hint, you better take it from me that they do. So try your best to keep it exciting for him and he will not soon have a good excuse to fool around with another woman!

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Welcome to the Dating Guide for Women!

In this guide you will learn how to attract men, how to attract the RIGHT men, how to find out if men lie, how you can be (and stay) in control, what you should absolutely NEVER do, how to keep a man faithful and much much more.

This guide is written by a man, so you can be certain that all the info here comes from someone who knows a thing or two about it :)